Trauma Therapy & Counselling
We Help Survivors of Trauma Heal Safely With Proven Therapies So They Can Rebuild Trust, Restore Balance, and Live Free From Fear
Do You Struggle In One Of These Areas?
Living through trauma changes the way you think, feel, and connect with others. Survivors often face:
Lingering Symptoms
Flashbacks, nightmares, and constant fear disrupt daily life and keep you feeling unsafe long after the trauma.
Broken Connections
Unresolved trauma strains relationships, making it difficult to trust, communicate, or feel close to others.
Emotional Overload
Anxiety, depression, and hypervigilance leave you feeling stuck, exhausted, and unable to move forward.
Without professional help, trauma can grow into chronic PTSD and keep you trapped in pain long after the event has ended.
We Understand Because We’ve Helped Trauma Clients Since 1995
At Affinity Counselling Services, we understand how overwhelming trauma feels — it doesn’t just live in your memories, it affects your body, emotions, and relationships.
Since 1995, our certified therapists have been helping individuals in Langley and beyond heal from abuse, violence, accidents, sudden loss, and other life-altering events. We are trained in trauma-focused therapies such as:
- Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) – reframes negative thoughts.
- Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) – reprocesses traumatic memories.
- Observed and Experiential Integration (OEI) – integrates body and mind responses.
- Somatic approaches – calm the nervous system and reduce hyperarousal.
Our experience combines compassion with research-based tools that work.
A Clear Path Forward From Trauma to Transformation
Healing from trauma doesn’t happen overnight, but there is a clear path forward:
Step 1: Book a Confidential Consultation
Share your story in a safe and supportive space.
Step 2: Work With a Trauma-Trained Counsellor
Process memories, regulate emotions, and learn coping strategies tailored to your needs.
Step 3: Restore Balance and Resilience
Build healthier relationships, regain self-confidence, and move toward a life free from fear.
Don’t let trauma define your future. With professional therapy, healing is possible.
Read “5 Ways Trauma Affects the Body and Mind — and How Counselling Can Help”
Your Transformation Into A Better Future
Imagine living without constant flashbacks or panic. Imagine feeling safe in your own body again. Imagine reconnecting with the people you love.
With trauma therapy, you can move from “overwhelmed to empowered and resilient”, from “isloated to supported and connected”, and from “stuck in the past to living with peace in the present”.
With Therapy, You Gain:
- Relief from PTSD symptoms.
- Stronger emotional regulation.
- Renewed trust and intimacy in relationships.
- Practical tools for handling future challenges.
Without Therapy, You Risk:
- Long-term PTSD and anxiety.
- Strained relationships and ongoing conflict.
- Chronic stress affecting physical health.
- Remaining trapped in cycles of fear and avoidance.
Top 5 Questions New Clients Ask Us
Life-Changing Results for Clients
Trauma Therapy FAQ
Don’t let trauma define your future. With professional therapy, healing is possible.
Read “5 Ways Trauma Affects the Body and Mind — and How Counselling Can Help”
Get To Know Your Professional Therapists
Lawrence Stoyanowski
M.Sc., M.F.T., R.C.C., C.G.T.
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Darren Wilk
M.A., R.C.C
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LaVerna Wilk
M.C., R.C.C.
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Duncan O’Mahoney
M.A., C.M.P.C., R.C.C., C.C.C
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Josipa Katinic
M.A., R.C.C., C.C.C., S.E.P., R.H.N., E.P.C.
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Sarah Coft
M.C.P., R.C.C
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Megan Foster
M.A.C.P., R.C.C.
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Stefan Kurschat
M.C., R.C.C.
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